Playful Parenting: A Bold New Way to Nurture Close Connections, Solve Behavioral Problems, and Encourage Children’s Confidence, by Lawrence J. Cohen PhD. is not a new release but it is very noteworthy. It is a guidebook on how to connect with your children and overcome behavioral issues using the power of play. He explains how children use play to communicate, deal with stress, learn, express emotions and to simply have fun. The book is well written and easy to follow and the content is supported by research and entertaining personal anecdotes.
Highlights:
Chapter 6 Learn to Roughhouse
This chapter discusses the importance of wrestling, pillow fighting and roughhousing to connect, to build empowerment and to safely release anger. He teaches you how wrestle and sets out rules and boundaries for safe roughhousing.
Chapter 8 Empower Girls and Connect with Boys
Dr. Cohen deals with gender stereotyping and how to use play to develop empowerment for girls and to build communication skills in boys.
Chapter 11 Learn to Love the Games you Hate
This chapter is a must read for any parent that dreads playtime because they simply “can’t” play with Barbie or whatever the child’s favorite toy is. He teaches you how to change the type of play you are engaging in not what you are playing with so you can both enjoy a meaningful playtime.
Chapter 13 Rethink the Way We Discipline
Dr. Cohen takes a different approach to discipline. He believes that bad behavior is due feeling unloved and to fix behavior issues, your child needs to feel loved. Instead of exasperating the feeling of being unloved by sending a child away in a time out, he suggest using having a time in and to use the time to connect.
Chapter 14 Play Your Way Through Sibling Rivalry
This chapter deals with multiple children, how to play with more than one child effectively and how to deal with family dynamics through play.
Although I always played regularly with my child, after reading this book, the quality of our play time went to a new level. It was the first time my daughter literally thanked me for being so much fun to play with. The advice in this book timeless and can apply to children of any age. It is a must read for every parent.
Review by Tiffany Miller
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